Thursday, December 26, 2013

It’s NOT just a joke damn it! So get over it…

It seems like ages ago when Max Lucado used to inspire me with his daily devotional messages. I stopped reading them when I abandoned my yahoo! E-mail account through which I had subscribed to his service. And it’s been years too. But somehow, a line from his devotionals has stuck with me. It’s a line I even used when I preached -yes preached- some years ago at Chancellor College. Boy that seems like ages, ages ago…But the line is simply this; “[Insensitive] Words cause wounds that heal slowly.” [Or something along those lines…] I dunno why folks are so bloody careless with their words. I don’t know why even the well-meaning are so reckless with what comes out of their mouths. 

Of course it’s not possible to guard against all verbal slipups in the world. Some words will hurt not because they are hurtful in themselves but because they exploit that sore fragility of the listener. Their insecurity, fears and what not. Against such kind of hurt, perhaps no provision can be made. But there are words that are inherently vicious that unlike the benign word that hurt those already vulnerable, these take some inhumane stoicism to wave away. So make no mistake. Before you let that joke slip or that comment escape your lips, think about the impact it will have on your audience. For many are the words that for all their superficial innocence exploit stereotypes of the worst kind. Racism, sexism, tribalism and all the other isms that continue to inflict so much pain around us. I see it all the time on social media. In conversation with friends. In writings of most respected authors.  It’s a deep seated problem really. It’s diagnosis particularly tricky. Part of it is simply ignorance of course. After all, sensitivities have got a cultural context as well. Looking at a person in a particular way may be offensive to people from a particular culture. For some, it may be that innocuous omission of the prefix ‘please’  from a most sincere request which at the end horribly comes out as a presumptuous command, which may cause offence. Indeed, for as many people as there are on earth, each with their own singular past, so are the possibilities for offence.  And it’s even more challenging because most of the frames through which we process our communication are deeply embedded in our psyche. Lifelong held assumptions about people cannot simply disappear as a result of a lecture on the niceties of courtesy and what not.  

Its complicated business this sensitivity stuff. But that’s no excuse for harsh brusqueness.  A little attempt to know our audience could be a useful starting point. An acknowledgment that our most fundamental assumptions about people may be wrong could also be helpful. And a resistance to the often powerful tendency to rob our audience of their humanity. It’s strange isn’t it, how the golden rule is often trampled on? Do unto others as you would have done to yourself, simply put is ‘see in others the humanity you see in yourself.’ The vulnerabilities that are there in you, that potential to hurt, to tear and bleed exist in the next person regardless of age, sex or any other status as they do in you. If this thought endured at the front of our minds (as opposed to its back), we would cause others less hurt with our words…

Tuesday, December 10, 2013

EULOGIZING A COLOSSUS; NELSON ROLIHLAHLA MANDELA (JULY 18, 1918 ~ DECEMBER 5, 2013) –PART II

Did he sell the blacks out?

Racial discrimination and the domination of the black race in South Africa started with the arrival of Jan Van Ribbeck at the Cape of in 1652. When Apartheid in the form that it existed between 1948 to the early 1990s was introduced, there was already in place systemic subjugation of the blacks by the white imperial forces for close to 3 centuries. What this means is that by the time that Mandela was assuming the Presidency in 1994, this system which structurally and institutionally disadvantaged black people had been religiously enforced for over 3 centuries. It is naïve to expect these historical injustices to have been reversed within the first 5 years of Madiba’s presidency let alone during the negotiation period of the CODESA process. When a task is so ridiculously monumental, one is setting himself up for failure if he decides to do everything at once. Pragmatism dictates that one takes a step at a time. It was President Mandela’s judgment that what South Africa needed after centuries of the injustice of apartheid was a period of reconciliation and a coming together. That he needed to build a nation. This is the task he set apart for himself and one which he executed with amazing grace.

This does not mean, however, that it is illegitimate to inquire whether or not more could have been done to end the economic subjugation of the blacks. This question is particularly imperative when one considers that the Freedom Charter, the ANC’s [and other liberation movements’] statement of core principles committed the organisation to the nationalisation of industry and the redistribution of land.  While most of the charter’s demands found their way into the new Constitution, these 2 core demands were conspicuous by their absence. The ANC has subsequently rejected blanket nationalisation of industry preferring instead to ‘increase state ownership but only in sectors where it deems appropriate.’ See the Party’s 2012 Mangaung Conference resolutions.

There are several things to be said here. First of all, it would appear to me that the Freedom Charter was a statement of aspirations. Goals which those in the struggle movement hoped to see realized. And while this does not in any way lessen the significance of the document, as evidenced by how much it influenced the content of the new Constitution, I doubt if those in the struggle movement thereby irrevocably bound themselves to live by its contents regardless of the exigencies of the moment. It should be obvious, one imagines, that the policy that anchors a struggle movement will often be markedly different from that which informs the hard business of governing a country. Secondly, the ANC took the Charter to a negotiating table through the CODESA process. If all its demands had been forced down the throat of the National Party [as would largely have been the case if the 2 keys demands above had been accepted] then one wonders if the process would still have qualified as a negotiated settlement. We can debate whether the ANC conceded too much ground during the negotiations, considering that the other demands in the Charter were largely basic human rights demands anyway. But what is not debatable is that in any negotiation worth its name, compromise is inevitable. It is worth speculating, however, what would have become of South Africa if there had been a radical departure in economic policy in 1994. Would its people have been better off compared to their current station if the mines and other industries had been nationalised and if the land had been redistributed? How best would this have been carried out? Would the government have been assured of the availability of legitimate force to enforce some aspects of this reform considering that the Police and military formations were still [practically]] largely controlled by the whites? I can only speculate.

This, however, is not to suggest that Madiba’s arm may not have been twisted during the negotiations. Capital in South Africa was largely in the hands of white people and its naïve to think that they would have given it up on a silver platter. They naturally pushed back against the more radical demands encapsulated in the Freedom Charter. This they did with some success. And let nothing detract from the fact that the social and economic condition of the average black man [the overwhelming majority] is nothing less than a scandal. For the majority of blacks, the train has really not left the station. They continue to wallow in abject poverty, stricken by disease and a life of violent crime. This is in sharp contrast to what goes on the other side of South Africa. Where the dizzyingly wealthy, the majority of whom are white but who since 1994 [thanks to the government’s affirmative action and pure corruption] have been joined by a tiny group of blacks, live in opulence behind high-electric-wire-topped- security walls. The situation was starkly captured by South African Deputy President Kgalema Motlanthe on December 9, 2013 in his address to the Joint session of South African Parliament commemorating Madiba when he said: Why then do the majority of the world’s people, the great unwashed, live in abject poverty when a fair distribution of the world’s resources would not even minimise the material comfort of those who wallow in luxury at the top of social articulation? We cannot claim to follow in the footsteps of this inspiring leader when we have these shocking levels of poverty sitting cheek by jowl with fabulously dazzling material riches known to human history.”

It should be fair, in the circumstances, to ask what, if at any, was Mandela’s contribution to this shameful condition? Does he bear any responsibility as a result of his omissions during the transition negotiations and his term as President? All these are fair inquires. What is not fair is to omit the context in embarking on the inquiry. When it comes to South Africa, I do not, with respect, think that it should be permissible for anyone to simply wave Malcom X, Sankara and or Mugabe [you can add your favourite ‘revolutionaries to this list!] and think that they have won the argument.

The TRC and accountability for apartheid atrocities

Lastly, we look at the criticism that Madiba failed to punish the perpetrators of apartheid era atrocities. The argument here is that the TRC with its emphasis on restorative justice failed to accommodate the retributive elements of the penal system. That folks who were responsible for horrible crimes during apartheid should have been hauled before the Courts, tried for their evil deeds and accordingly punished. This argument deserves some sympathy, one must say, seeing as it is that retribution and vengeance remain the legitimate aims of any criminal justice system. Rather simplistically, let me rehash how the TRC worked. Perpetrators of human rights violations were encouraged to come forward and essentially render a full account of their evil deeds. A full and frank account rendered one eligible for a pardon of sorts and immunity from criminal prosecution. The victims would fully participate during the process and were at liberty to either support or oppose the application for amnesty. It’s quite accurate, therefore, that healing and restoration was at the centre of this process as opposed to retribution and vengeance.

Again context matters here. Apartheid was a system that had survived for over 4 decades. It was fully entrenched in the country and literally pervaded every aspect of life. And what more; it had the backing of the law in South Africa. Accordingly some if not a lot of what happened under the system, especially on the government’s side, had the colour of law. Perhaps there would have been a danger of retrospective criminalisation if acts which were lawful at the time were punished at a later date. Secondly, rules of criminal responsibility are such that the criminal justice net would have hauled quite a ludicrously huge number of people into its process. This is so because accomplices [aiders, enablers, procurers, abettors, counsellors] would all have been fixed with criminal responsibility. Considering how pervasive apartheid was one would surmise that there would have been droves and droves of white people being hauled before the courts to answer criminal justice. These were going to be criminal trials on an industrial scale. [Though the struggle movement was also responsible for some atrocities, this pales in comparison to the scale of the government inflicted atrocities on the African people.] Inevitably, this was going to take a racial tinge [of victors’ justice] which was going to affect social cohesion in the long run. But above all, what must be emphasised is that the TRC system was a form of justice. The fact that it sought to restore and heal as opposed to exact vengeance does not make it any lesser form of justice. At the end of the day, retribution and forgiveness are all moral choices and they can be no rational basis for saying that one is superior to the other. Sight must not be lost of the fact that there was full victim participation in the process and that some of the perpetrators were in fact denied amnesty and were eventually prosecuted. In some cases, however, the victims themselves supported the amnesty application. I personally would have loved to see more prosecutions of the perpetrators of the especially heinous crimes. And the fact of the matter is that this is what the majority of the black people would have wanted. Given such kind of pressures, it is amazing that a decision to go against the populist tide can be seen as a sign of weakness in a leader. I should think it takes a particular kind of moral courage for a politician to stand for a position which is unpopular.

The fallible giant…

Let me finish by quoting from Barack Obama’s eulogy delivered on December 10, 2013 at Madiba’s memorial service:-

“Given the sweep of his life, and the adoration that he so rightly earned, it is tempting then to remember Nelson Mandela as an icon, smiling and serene, detached from the tawdry affairs of lesser men.  But Madiba himself strongly resisted such a lifeless portrait. Instead, he insisted on sharing with us his doubts and fears; his miscalculations along with his victories.  "I'm not a saint," he said, "unless you think of a saint as a sinner who keeps on trying."
It was precisely because he could admit to imperfection – because he could be so full of good humor, even mischief, despite the heavy burdens he carried - that we loved him so.  He was not a bust made of marble; he was a man of flesh and blood – a son and husband, a father and a friend.  That is why we learned so much from him; that is why we can learn from him still.  For nothing he achieved was inevitable.  In the arc of his life, we see a man who earned his place in history through struggle and shrewdness; persistence and faith.  He tells us what’s possible not just in the pages of dusty history books, but in our own lives as well.”

Madiba was a fallible human being. Human greatness is never measured by how infallible one is. If that was the case, it would no longer be human greatness but something else. It is the human triumph over monumental adversity that defines human greatness. That unwavering commitment to principle. That simplicity, purity and rawness of righteous desire. To simply be a man. With equal opportunities. Where one’s skin colour is of no more significance in the quest for realisation of one’s potential than one’s sex, tribe, gender or sexual orientation. And the colossal personal sacrifice made to live that principle. 27 years away from what most of us take for granted. “A son denied the opportunity to bury his mother and a grieving father a chance to bury his son.” Shattered family lives… So let there be no mistake. Madiba, the fallible giant, lived his life with remarkable nobility. He did his duty. The world was a better place because of the sacrifices he made in it. And the son of Qunu has rightly earned his place in the ‘pantheons of history.’


Monday, December 9, 2013

EULOGIZING A COLOSSUS; NELSON ROLIHLAHLA MANDELA (JULY 18, 1918 ~ DECEMBER 5, 2013) –PART I

My first 'encounter' with Nelson Mandela must have been around 1994. It was from the musical Sarafina which is set in Apartheid South Africa. I must have been around 8 then and can safely say that I was already precociously politically aware. He sounded too good to be true this Mandela guy. Almost a mythical character. However, a few years later, as I dug deeper on him and other heroes that I had discovered along the way, the likes of Malcom X and Martin Luther King Jr., my affection and admiration for the man grew. Before December 5, 2013, if I had been granted just one wish in the world, I am more than sure that it would have been to meet this man. Let’s keep it simple. I admired the man because not simply because he spent 27 years in prison; there are many people who have spent even longer periods of time in incarceration on politically motivated grounds. Rather, it was the raw and unapologetic commitment to principle that the 27 years represented that earned him my eternal respect. It was the way in which he went about building a nation after he became President that etched his name onto my heart. The boldness to reconcile with the enemy, to embrace his tormentors and the magnanimity and grace to move on from a painful past without forgetting its useful lessons. Let’s face it. Madiba is stuff of legends. President Obama was right when he said that we are unlikely to see anyone of his ilk again. Not that human decency has perished from the face of the face. But rather because the peculiar political circumstances that conspired to birth the Mandelas of this world won’t probably repeat themselves. True there remains a lot to be done in this world. A lot of evil to be confronted. There is war on poverty, hunger, disease and illiteracy to be won. But surely this will not require those waging these wars to be locked up on a lonely and wretched island for close to 2 decades. [There is a popular misconception that Mandela spent 27 years on Robben Island. In fact he only spent some 18 years or so on the Island. The remainder of his prison term was served at Pollsmoor and Victor Verster prisons.] It’s further true that there still remains political settlements to be secured in the Palestine and that there are still many peoples of this world who are denied the basic rights and freedoms that some of us take for granted. Countries like Burma, Saud Arabia, Swaziland come to mind. Maybe these still need gallant sons and daughters to lead them to the Promised Land. But so different are the variables that they are unlikely to attain even half the stature of Mandela.

There are those who in light of his passing on December 5, 2013 have sought to cast aspersions on his legacy. They have called him names. From an opportunist who had greatness thrust upon him to a western puppet and everything in between.  It’s a free world. The kind that Mandela was ready to lay down his life in order to see realized. So people can blurt out what they fancy. However, it is in that same freedom that we add our own voice to the ‘debate’ about the Madiba legacy.

Greatness thrust upon him…

There is no gainsaying that Mandela was a product of peculiar historical circumstances. He became of age in a country in which a brutal system of racial discrimination condemned him and others of his race to “a lonely island of poverty in the midst of a vast ocean of material prosperity.” They were to be excluded from the political process simply because they were black. Faced with such kind of stark social reality, one must make a decision. For good or bad such calls alter history. Madiba, dutifully, made the right call when he got recruited by Walter Sisulu into the ANC in 1942/43. Any person who has even fleetingly glanced at the history of the ANC will know that before his incarceration in 1962, Madiba had been a leader in the ANC. It was him and others who pushed for a more ‘militant’ liberation organisation. In fact his views to revolutionize the ANC [through formation of a Youth League for instance] were considered so radical by Dr. Xuma, the leader of the ANC at the time that him and his comrades [Sisulu, Lembede] were dismissed as being “naïve firebrands.” In fact, by the time that Mandela was being incarcerated he had been the movement’s leader for the Transvaal, secretary of the Youth League on top of being a member of the party’s national executive committee. This clearly shows that Mandela was a leader in his own right even before he was thrown into prison.

Even a cursory examination of the role he played during the Rivonia trial [his 3 hour court address] and at Robben Island clearly shows that his colleagues recognised him as the first among equals. It’s accurate indeed that the ANC had rivals within South Africa. Long Walk to Freedom, Madiba’s autobiography details how Robert Sobukwe, the leader of the Pan Africanist’ Congress, the ANC’s chief rival organisation, made it a point to antagonise Mandela and to challenge his ‘leadership’ of political prisoners on the Island. But for those within the ANC on the Island, they accepted Mandela as their leader.

The struggle to liberate South Africa has never been a one man show. No honest man can produce evidence that Mandela ever made any claim that he singlehandedly dismantled apartheid. Such evidence is not available because Mandela never made such an outlandish assertion. In fact quite the contrary. Mandela has always been insistent that the liberation struggle was a collective effort. It is even recorded that he resisted any attempt to call for his lone release minus that of his comrades. The slander that he stole other struggle stalwarts’ glory is, therefore, baseless and is indeed just that; malicious slander. But it is indeed true that there was a decision made by the movement in exile in Zambia and London [the likes of Tambo and Mbeki] that they would make Mandela the ‘poster boy’ of the liberation struggle. I guess ‘Free Mandela’ sells well than Free Mandela, Govan Mbeki, Walter Sisulu, Kathrada, Mac Maharaj….[yo! The list is endless isn’t it?] Can you imagine such kind of a media campaign? Wouldn’t it be a such a damp squib that no traction would in fact be gained? By highlighting the plight of Mandela, the struggle movement was ‘dramatizing [his] shameful condition’ and indeed that of all those prisoners of conscience who were being held on the Island. It was indicting the apartheid regime and everything else that it stood for.

But again History will record that it was Madiba who had wisdom to tell that the pivotal moment to start talking to the racist regime had come. This he did at a great risk to his personal standing within the organisation as others were suspicious of his motives. After his release from prison in 1990, Mandela continued to provide steady leadership to the ANC through the CODESA process. It was him who probably pulled South Africa from the precipice of a bloody civil war when he appeared on national television to calm the nation down after the racially motivated slaying of Chris Hani.  

Surely all this should begin to answer the skeptics unbelievable assertion that Madiba had greatness thrust upon him, no?

To be continued...